If you like the idea of meeting women for dates soon, but you’re not totally sure if you’re committed to the whole “dating just to hook up” thing, you might have good luck with Xpress.
The only reason Xpress is on our “secondary” list instead of in our Top Three is that our results were a little less impressive on here than they were on SocialSex, XXXLove, and AdultFriendFinder.
However, if you’re looking for a lot of quality, super attractive women looking to go on dates for short-term flings, Xpress.com is a great place for you to try out tonight. It’s especially good to use in conjunction with some of our other favorite sites, like SocialSex (where we had our best results so far).
What makes Xpress.com so good? Let’s look closer…
The #4 Site For Meeting Women Online: Xpress.com Review
Xpress.com is a great website for meeting women. It’s not necessarily the best site for HOOKING UP with women, but it does have a pretty good track record when it comes to just meeting them in the first place.
Xpress.com is a dating site, unlike many of the sites we’ve reviewed. It’s not a hookup site
specifically. Yes, dating sites usually have very low response rates, which is why we were surprised to find during our Xpress review that the site had such a good response rate for us.
The women on here are surprisingly hot! We had better luck with them than we did with a lot of women on sites like this, which is good, because…
You may have to work harder for a date.
This is not a crappy site like UpForIt.com. This is a site with real legit women who are a bit pickier than the ones on sites where they are just looking for a piece of ass for the night.
This is a good thing!
If you have to work harder for a date, remember, all the other guys on here will have to do the same. The good thing about this is that most guys on dating sites don’t know HOW to get a date to save their lives. They just keep doing the same things over and over (dick pics and whining) and wondering why they can never get laid and why women are such bitches.
News flash: women aren’t “such bitches,” you’re talking to them wrong. For more on how to craft your first message in a way that WILL get a response, check out our guide to sending a great first email on dating sites. We’ll teach you how to make SURE you don’t mess up with the girl you want to see.
Our Results Using Xpress.com: Why It Deserves The [POSITION] Spot
During our time on Xpress.com, we sent out messages to 720 girls. That felt like a pretty good number on this website—even though there weren’t as many girls as on a site like AdultFriendFinder, the girls were really high quality, so we didn’t mind that there weren’t as many of them.
While we’ve never been able to match the fantastic response rate we got on SocialSex (over 600 responses to 720 emails!), we were still very thrilled with the 421 replies we got back on Xpress. That’s still well over 50%, which is considered outstanding for a dating site.
Xpress.com specializes in quality, not quantity.
We’re not saying that’s a good thing OR a bad thing. It just makes this a slightly different website than a lot of the ones we’ve tried out.
We did wind up setting up dates with 31 of the girls we were messaging. However, only 26 actually showed up. We were very pleased with the way those dates went, and have not minded spending more time on writing our Xpress review.
The dates we had from Xpress.com were fantastic. These sites are not always so good, and because they’re inconsistent it makes it much better when we DO find a site with a lot of awesome girls. Being able to hook up fast is one thing, but it’s not every site that we find a bunch of women we genuinely wouldn’t mind spending more time with.
What Worked Well On Xpress.com: Xpress.com Strategies For Maximum Wins
You have to really bring your top game on Xpress. These women are usually looking for FLINGS, not hookups. While the difference is minimal, there are big differences. Flings, according to women, are:
- Questionable decisions they make anyway (like too much cake)
- Short, passionate relationships
- Last a few intense dates
- Between one day and three weeks
- Only happen with someone who captivates them
- Very romantic
Hookups, according to the women on this site, are:
- Bad decisions they make anyway (like way too much vodka & red bull)
- Usually with someone they don’t want to see again
- Something they will regret later
- One night ONLY
As you can see, this means that for most of the women on Xpress.com, they’ll want to feel like they’re having a fling, rather than just losing themselves in a momentary hookup.
Xpress.com Review: What We Don’t Love About Xpress.com
While we do love Xpress.com, we can’t help but feel that there were a lot of girls on the site who were wanting a little more than we were willing to give. In the case of this website, that was about $500 per hour.
Tread lightly, there ARE some hookers and escorts doing business through Xpress.com.
Another thing to be wary of is that as we said, the standards are higher. Read through our guides a couple times, so you don’t waste your own time making easy mistakes. The girls here are pretty quick to click away.
Our Conclusion On Using Xpress.com
However, it can’t really compare with the response rates we got on our Best Three websites. Those sites simply had more girls who were more willing to put out, and we had more fun.