Tip For Meeting Women #5: The Easiest Way To Meet Girls
You can meet a lot of girls on fling sites. One thing that will help you find out if you’re going to be able to get laid quick is a simple matter of psychology, believe it or not.
Why is this girl on a fling site?
If you can answer this question, you have given yourself a huge advantage towards knowing exactly how to proceed with getting to know her, and exactly what to say for maximum impact.
Remember that most of the guys on these sites have no idea what they’re doing.
These guys just sign on, take a quick picture of their junk (see our guide to creating a great profile picture for more on why you should NEVER post pictures of your junk), and decide that they’ll send a quick message to a girl they think is hot.
What they don’t know is that they’re probably doing exactly what those girls are online trying to get away from. This is the exact kind of behavior that beautiful women encounter at bars ALL THE TIME. A guy sending a dumb and poorly thought-out message like “nic titz” is the equivalent of a drunk guy at a bar stumbling up to a pretty girl and throwing a meaty arm around her shoulder before breathing in her face.
If that shit worked, you’d be in bars right now getting laid left and right. It doesn’t, which is why online sites are so much better. Online, you get to spend time evaluating women based on their profiles, and even more, what they DON’T say.
The easiest kind of girl to take home is one who is currently out for revenge on some other guy.
These are girls that have been duped, dumped, or cheated on recently. They’re out to get revenge, and they don’t have very high standards right now. If anything, sometimes they’ll want someone that’s pretty far beneath their standards, just to show the guy they were seeing that he’s no good.
If you can swoop in and be the classy guy ahead of all those losers on dating sites, you WILL get laid by a girl like this.
The best part is that the girls looking for revenge sex online are usually WAY hotter than the rest of the girls on the site. They’re lowering their standards for a brief moment, and that’s your golden opportunity to sweep in be exactly what they’re looking for.
The American Institute of Psychology estimates that over 75% of women who have been cheated on or dumped will look for a rebound lay online. However, most of those women will wind up not finding anyone right away and chickening out.
You can be what they’re looking for.
First, you have to know that a girl is vulnerable. Then, you’ll know how to approach her. But how do you know if a girl is in that time of life at this exact moment? Here are three questions to ask to find out if this girl is in a vulnerable place in her life and ready to get laid quick:
- “I bet you get hit on by a lot of douchebags, right?”
This question is a bit tricky. In rare cases, a woman can be so angry that even being reminded of the hurt is enough to make her switch off of men for a while. However, most of the time we’ve tried it, we’ve had very good success. You set yourself apart from other men, while giving her an opportunity to tell you exactly how much she hates “regular guys.”
At the same time, she’ll be giving you a personalized list of everything she hates about most men. This is basically a treasure map, and getting laid is the X that marks the spot.
- “Do you prefer a guy who promises you the moon, or one who fulfills all his promises?”
Just give her a way to tell you how horrible all men are and you’re halfway there. Don’t worry about the mythical “friend zone,” these women know they’re on a fling site.
- “When’s the last time you had a guy treat you right?”
Expect a bit of emotions from this one, or possibly some bitter humor. These women are ANGRY at the men in their lives, and you’re the exact cure for what they want: a quick and easy revenge lay.
Make it easy for them by asking one of these three questions. We guarantee that by the end of it, you’ll know for sure whether or not this girl is looking for a revenge hook-up.