Tip For Meeting Women #3: Creating a Great Profile Description
We’ve tested a lot of different sites in order to get you the best possible information about online dating (we also tested a few ones to meet married women online). When we did these tests, we also tried out a lot of different kinds of profiles in a search to see what works the best, and what doesn’t work at all when it comes to getting you laid.
The FIRST thing you need to work on is how you appear to women on dating sites.
No, we’re not talking about your physical appearance (we went over that in choosing a great profile picture). We’re talking about the tone you use in your profile picture.
Some things in common with the best and most successful profile pictures for guys include:
- Coming across as strong—you know you have what it takes to succeed, and you’re not worried about your chances.
- Coming across as confident—you’re sure this is going to work out well for you.
- Coming across as CLASSY—this is not a porno profile. Even if you’re advertising on a website that exclusively caters to girls with at least three XXXs in their username, you still have to be the class act.
Here’s a hard truth: No more than 20 percent of guys on dating sites are actually getting laid.
If you’re curious about why, sign out of your profile, then sign in again as a “guest,” saying you’re female and you’re looking for a man (we swear it won’t turn you gay). Imagine you’re looking for a date for your sister, or your female coworker who really needs to get laid. We’re guessing you’ll notice a few things right away.
Most of the guys on dating sites have TERRIBLE profiles.
If you’re a guy that writes, “lol im BALLR I gon bagn u hard wmy 7in ya,” we guarantee that profile will not get you laid. It might get you banned or deleted from the website, actually.
Girls care a lot more about things like proper spelling and punctuation than guys do. Here’s the thing: bad spelling will bother some girls, but not others. Good spelling won’t bother anyone. If you want to maximize your chances of getting laid, just turn on your autocorrect and spend more than three seconds sending an email. Chances, are, that will put you ahead of 90 percent of the guys this girl gets messages from.
You’re creating a fantasy for women.
Creating an awesome profile is really just one step towards the larger goal: creating a FANTASY. Earlier, we talked about how women who want guys with money actually just want guys to spoil them. The same holds true for pretty much anything—she doesn’t care about a guy’s job, she just wants him to look like he has his shit together.
We cannot stress enough how important it is to look like you have your shit together.
Here are the top three interests to mention that work REALLY well in creating a profile that is going to get you laid. We tried over TWENTY profiles; these are the ones that got us the best responses when listed as interests.
Girls love the idea of travel. Whether you went to Cancun for spring break one year or you spent the last ten in Okinawa, make sure you mention it. If you have pictures, make sure at least one of them is up on your profile, preferably as your profile picture.
The fact that you’re into travel tells a girl a few things:
- You’re not broke
- You’re adventurous
- You’re spontaneous
- You’re open-minded
- You’re not a couch potato
Cooking and food are huge right now, but you don’t have to have Gordon Ramsay’s restaurants or wrinkles to get laid. Even if you just say you’re a huge foodie, that means that you’re a good experimenter in the kitchen. Food is basically sex when it comes to women, so don’t forget the sensual allure!
No, this doesn’t mean boasting about how many times you’ve seen the new Michael Bay movie. However, it doesn’t mean you have to live at an art house, either. Whatever niche movie area your into, there’ll be a lot of girls who like it, and more who think it’s cool you’re so passionate.