Sure, Internet dating is all the rage, but people really do meet chicks the old fashioned way. In fact, in the hook-up world, the best place to score is a bar. The bar scene seems confusing and loud in comparison to private AIM chatting, but it’s probably the surest way to get a girl for the evening. When you’re going for the pick-up in a bar, it’s important to follow some basic rules to get the ladies interested. If you’re going for the one night stand you need to bring your game. Before you throw yourself into it, make sure you keep the following things in mind.
Dress for Success
When you are trying to lure a lady in, you want to make sure that you look the part. Don’t show up in your work clothes like you’re hanging out with your friends. That is, of course, unless your work clothes happen to be a suit or scrubs. Going to a bar after work only brings the women in if you have a career that makes you look successful. If you’re not saving lives or making high dollar deals, then you need to wear clothes that fit and aren’t dirty. When we asked, chicks said they liked to get an idea of what we’re working with. Baggy clothes make you look small. No babe wants to go home with a tiny dude.
This really sets you off in a college bar. You want to make sure that you don’t drink the cheap stuff. Try to go for local brews or more expensive beers. This can be an opener if a hottie plops down at the bar next to you. Smile at her if she’s drinking something cheap and then say ″you need to try this.″ do not offer her a glass; instead see if you can get a sample for her. However, if she goes for the glass, let her. If she really likes what you have to offer, then buy her one. One thing to pay attention to, is that the more expensive the beer, the more alcohol content it usually has. Keep that in mind while you’re throwing them back.
Closing time is the hook-up hour in most bars. You want to try to seal your deal before this crucial time of the evening. It’s important to start closing yourself out about an hour before the bar. If you’ve had chemistry with a chick, now’s the time. The trick to being direct is to not be sleazy. “So, what are your plans for the rest of the evening?” is a good start. If she says she’s going home, resist the urge to say, “Want to try my home?” That’s creepy. Instead say, “You sure? I was thinking of getting something to eat or a cup of coffee.”
Don’t leave out the chance that she’ll be the one to take the dive. College aged chicks like to take charge and are you going to argue with her if she’s the one who invites you home? Make sure that if she leaves the door open that you just come in, you don’t kick it in. Wait for a green light before you go all the way.