So your online profile has finally got some attention. You’re in the “getting to know you” phase of a possible dating relationship. Now is the time to ask her all those questions to see if it’s worth for you to go out on a date in person. The problem that most dudes have is that they have no idea what to ask. Leading a conversation with a woman is hard, most of us just prefer to let them take over and do the talking. However, this isn’t going to let you know if they’re the one for you or not. When you’re looking at a potential date, here are a few things to ask them to make sure that you aren’t wasting your time.
Where do You See Yourself in Ten Years
We know it’s a simple sounding question, but this one can take a chick totally off the table. If she says that she wants to be the mummy of a five year old, for example, we know to delete that contact. This is where you can weed out girls who are too serious for you or, in some cases, not serious enough. Either way, if you want to settle down or keep playing the field, you’ll know what’s on her mind and how she will approach your whole relationship. Sometimes the answer sounds canned, but if that’s the case, you can always try to joke and get more out of her.
Do you Like Kids?
It’s not that do you want them, but it’s – do you like them? See, most chicks who really want kids can’t shut up about it. If they do, then they will say that they adore kids and can’t wait to find a guy and start a family of their own. If this isn’t in your planning book, then you know that you have to cut and run. This also is a good way of seeing how serious a chick is about waiting a while before giving up the goods. Chicks that don’t want kids are typically more free spirited than those who want to go the traditional ball and chain route. After all, there’s nothing wrong with having a family, but we’re not even going to start thinking about it yet.
What are Your Deal Breakers
It’s important if you want to seal the deal with a babe to not put too much out there without some sort of cooperation from her. The trick is to get her to talk enough about herself to allow you to make a choice about trying to get with her or not. She may hate guys with pets, or she may hate the idea of sleeping with someone on first date. She may believe in love at first sight. You never know unless you ask. It’s important to figure out what her boundaries are before you run yourself up against them. It’s awkward and embarrassing to accidentally screw up a first date on some trivial thing that she really should have warned you about from jump. By asking in a straight forward manner, you’re going to hopefully cut the chances of that one way down.